Contributor: Nicole Golloso
Easy to Say, Hard to do.
I’m sure you know what I mean because you probably opened this article because the ‘delete’, ‘block’, and ‘unfollow’ buttons did not do the job for you.
Thing is,as much as finding a rebound will not resolve your problem, erasing memories could certainly not mend your broken heart as well.
If you really want to move on, stop caring about whatever your ex will do, say or feel now that you are not together. Instead, start diverting your focus back to yourself and take this opportunity to reconnect, to rediscover and to relearn.
Reconnect with your family and friends
Why waste time crying over your ex when you can have fun with people who are willing to be your “forever” even without you asking?
- JUMP YARD
Shake off your tears and celebrate your freedom with your loved ones.
Address: Road E, Frontera Verde, Ortigas Avenue Cor. E. Rodriguez Jr., Pasig City
Operating Hours: Monday-Thursday (except holidays) 12:00nn -9:00 pm
Friday (except holidays) 12:00nn – 10:30 pm
Saturday, Sunday & Holidays 9:00 am – 10:30 pm
Rates: Monday – Thursday Php 250/hour/jumper
Friday – Sunday & Holidays Php 350/hour/jumper
- BOARDS AND PIECES
Start making new memories over boardgames and good food like the good old days.
Address: Block 2 Lot 15 Greenwoods Ave., Greenwoods Executive Village,
Contact Details: (02) 544 8274 or 0917-544-8274
Operating Hours: Monday- Thursday 2:00 pm – 12:00 am
Friday – Sunday 2:00 pm – 1:00 am
Must-try dishes: Burger Against Humanity, Chixit Wings, Milo Cake, Spicy Halli Olio
Must-try drinks: Red Velvet Frost, Nutella Frost
- CITY KART RACING
If you can’t beat your friends in the game of love, claim the victory in kart racing instead.
Address: Circuit Makati, Barangay Carmona, Makati City
Contact Details: 0915-447-1060 or 0920-411-2645
Operating Hours: Monday-Thursday 3:00 pm-11:00 pm
Friday – Sunday 11:00 am- 11:00 pm
Rediscover your strengths and capabilities
Being single doesn’t mean that you have to be miserable.
Believe me, Single, Strong and Happy goes very well together too.
Your happiness should not depend on anyone else. Start your journey towards a happier, healthier and better you by bringing back the balance in your life.
Address: BGC Branch– 11/F The Fort Legend Tower, 3rd Ave. Cor. 31st street, BGC, Taguig City
Ortigas Branch– 4/F The Podium, ADB Ave., Ortigas Center, Mandaluyong City
Makati Branch- 3/F Cambridge Centre, Tordesillas Cor. Gallardo St., Salcedo Village, Makati City
Manila Branch- 2/F Enrique Razon Sports Center, DLSU Manila, Fidel Reyes Street, Malate, Manila City
Contact Details: 86YOGA+ (5696420) or 09988669260 or 09276548254
- BEAST HOUSE POLE AND AERIAL DANCE STUDIO
You may be single but you are not necessarily inferior to those who are in a relationship. Stand up for yourself and prove that you could conquer any challenge that life would throw at you without having to depend on anyone.
Address: 2/F D’ Ace Plaza, United St. Cor. Brixton St., Kapitolyo, Pasig City
Operating Hours: Monday to Sunday 8:00 am to 10:00 pm
Contact Details: +63916-596-8752
Classes Offered: Beginner and Advance Pole, Beginner and Advance Silk, Contortion, Aerial Loop, Heels & Tease, Pick a Trick, Zumba
- NINJA ACADEMY
Your break up may have challenged you physically, mentally and emotionally but that doesn’t mean that you are weak. Stop underestimating yourself and believe that you are more than what you think you are.
Address: #155 Dr. Sixto Antonio Avenue, Pasig City
Operating Hours: Monday to Friday 1:00 pm – 9:00 pm
Saturday 11:00 am – 9:00 pm
Sundays 11:00 am – 7:00 pm
Contact Details: (02) 6242872 or +639175658945
Classes Offered: Parkour, Gauntlet (Circuit Training and Obstacle Course challenge), Kenjutsu (Art of Swordmanship), Tricking (Martial Arts, Gymnastics, Breakdancing and Capoeira Combo), Rogue Day (Calisthenics)
Relearn to love yourself
You’ve invested time, energy and effort to make your previous relationship work. Don’t you think that you also deserve to give that kind of attention to yourself too?
- SIP & GOGH
Alcohol is not the answer to your problem but a sip of wine and a little taste of art would surely be helpful in releasing all the negativities that you have at the moment. Bank on your emotions and transform that into a masterpiece.
Address: Kapitolyo Branch- 2/F ACE Hotel Suites, United St., Cor. Brixton St.,
Kapitolyo, Pasig City
Operating Hours: Monday to Sunday 1:00 – 10:00 pm
Contact details: +63 6320069 or +63 9978044384
Other branches: Ayala Heights, Eastwood, Kapitolyo, Alabang
- THE FARM AT SAN BENITO
As much as you have to heal your broken heart, you must also rejuvenate your mind, body and soul.
Address: 119 Barangay Tipakan, 4217 Lipa, Batangas City
Contact details: +632 8848074 or +63 9188848078
Retreats Offered: The Farm Anti-age and rejuvenation
The Farm Fitness, The Farm Stress Management, The Farm Detox, The Farm Weight Management, The Farm Wellness Experience
Amenities: World-class Villas, Healing Sanctuary Spa Treatments, Integrated Medical Services (Psychoemotional Clearing, Guided Meditation, Ozone Therapy, Magnetic Clay Footbath etc.), Movement and Fitness, Golf Facilities
Moving on doesn’t always have to be sad depressing. As cliché as it may sound, you have to accept that everything happens for a reason and that sometimes we really have to go through difficult times for us to be able to experience and appreciate fully the better things that life has got in store for us.
So stop being bitter about the past and start enjoying the present not for anyone else but for yourself.
About the Contributor:
Nicole is someone who literally makes the concept of “work-life” balance seriously. Apart from having a full-time job as a Career Management Specialist, she also teaches part-time while taking up a Master’s Degree in Industrial Psychology. When she is not working, Nicole makes time for what she calls her “personal addictions”: Singing, Dancing, Travelling, and Collecting Volkswagen Beetle toys.